if you hook up and break up youre in the same classes. this is like the mistake of dating a neighbor or someone at work. you will have to see them everyday. sounds to me like youre in the friend zone which means it aint happenin. never date locals its a big mistake. youre best bet is simply walk up to the first girl that smiles at you in a social situation. dont try hard if you do that really pisses them off and makes you look like a loser. avoid the one with 5 guys buying her drinks having a good time. this one has exactly one dollar in her purse and spends most her time hustling drinks and with her fat gf on the dance floor. if she takes an interest in anyone her fat gf will take her home. look for the miserable one alone in a corner. ask if you can sit down the answer will be usually yes. then break it down from there. she crosses her legs you open yours she folds her arms you open yours. try to get away from the nightclub ASAP to limit competition. if you found the wallflower attractive the horndogs will hover around like vultures. even if its just outside to sit on a car to talk without screaming. say yelling is killing your singing voice. while sitting on a car talk about something romantic like the stars. if you get the make out signal ok make out. dont make things obvious. try to get to another smaller bar asap. preferably one with old smelly drunks in it whom she will find repulsive. she will definately want to hang at your place after one drink in a shithole like that. oh and always work alone. to get the girl you have to stop hanging with the guys. the only guys you should hang with are band or a gang. and only on certain nights. yes love sickness sucks but it fades with age. yes you will throw up, yes you will shit your pants in your sleep, yes you will pine. but life goes on. she usually picks you you dont pick her unless the cards all fall in the right place the right time. good luck.
